“Why can’t I stop?” is a question many people ask about a habit they want to change. In this Hale Ho’onani service, Pastor Vicky Lee invites a gentler look at that question through prayer, a guided reflection, and stories from the community. Press play with a notebook nearby and consider what your own next step might be.
Why Can’t I Stop a Habit I Want to Change?
If a habit keeps returning, self-criticism may leave you stuck with the same question. What do you notice when you pause and ask what is happening in your life around that habit? Watch Pastor Vicky’s exercise and hear the different insights people bring to the conversation.
Why Can’t I Stop? Find a Next Step with Hope
The service’s Hawaiian word of the week is mana‘olana, hope. Pastor Vicky connects that theme to the person looking back at you in the mirror and the choices you make for them. Press play to explore that image, join the closing prayer, and leave with a question worth carrying into tomorrow.



