Why do some connections feel easy while others carry expectations you never agreed to? In this Hale Ho’onani service, Pastor Vicky Lee invites you to map your “friend zone” and “relationship zone” before holiday gatherings bring those expectations into focus. Press play with a journal nearby to explore who is close to you, what you hope for, and where your boundaries begin.
The Relationship Zones: Friendship, Family, and Expectations
The relationship zones exercise asks you to look beyond romance to family, work, friendship, and even your relationship with God. What do you expect from each connection, and what might someone expect from you? Watch Pastor Vicky guide the group through those questions and see what your own map reveals.
Map Your Relationship Zones and Boundaries
If Thanksgiving or another gathering leaves you wondering where you stand with people, this service offers a creative way to examine your boundaries before you meet. Bring a notebook, follow the prompts, and consider which expectations you want to carry into your next conversation.
