When a relationship turns painful, do you hide who you are, give too much of yourself away, or find a way to keep growing? Pastor Vicky Lee uses the image of a divine spark to invite a closer look at those choices. Press play, then bring a relationship to mind for the reflection she offers.
What Happens When Relationships Go Sour?
It can be tempting to make yourself smaller to keep the peace. When relationships go sour, what happens to the parts of you that want to shine? Watch Pastor Vicky’s exploration of the spark within you and consider how past relationships have affected your sense of self.
When Relationships Go Sour, Can Your Spark Grow Brighter?
This video gives you a question to take into your journal: does a particular relationship expand who you are or shrink who you are? Press play to hear the three choices Pastor Vicky describes, then reflect on the response that would honor your growth.



